Author: Tom Rath
Publisher: Gallup Press, 2006
Friendship is the most fundamental of all human needs. Jesus said, “Greater love has not man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13). The words, “friend” and “friendship,” have lost some of their meaning today, however. If you were to ask ten people to define “friend” or even “best friend,” you’d get ten different answers. Yet, everyone acknowledges the importance of friends.
But, do we know just how vital friends really are?
I was intrigued by the title of this book, “Vital Friends” because the word vital carries the idea of something this is essential, indispensable, or something you cannot live without. Based on decades of research, this author explores the basic characteristics of friendships that add value to relationships, and then organizes them into eight descriptive categories.
With the purchase of the book, you are given access to a web-based assessment tool that helps you identify the distinct roles that your friends play in your life on a daily basis. The measurement-based language helps you describe and build upon what is right in your interpersonal relationships. The assessment takes about five minutes per friend. When the assessment is completed, you are provided a report that lists the top three vital roles that each friend plays in your life. With this information, you will be able to focus attention on the roles these friends play, and identify the opportunities for true growth in your relationships.
A great book! This is an amazing assessment tool that can help us recognize the positive potential in our friendships!
Reviewed by:
Dr. Larry S. Doyle, Director of Missions
Piedmont Baptist Association
Greensboro, NC.
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